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Your friend is sad consequence of female circumcision - Talal Alrubaie

- Your friend is sad consequence of female circumcision

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Talal Alrubaie

2009 / 3 / 14 - 00:44
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I think that the bad behavior of your friend’s husband was used, and possibly even encouraged, by your friend to justify her dislike or indifference to sex, dislike resulting from her circumcision. Hence, she apparently needed a husband who would not love her, since his love would make her vulnerable to love him back. But to love him back, she would have needed to be intimate with him, but how could she since she cannot enjoy sex? Her circumcision caused her aversion to sex (and erotic love) and inclination to have a husband treating her badly.
She did not complain about her husband while meeting you, because she did not want to change the status quo; she did not want to admit to you and, more importantly, to herself that she did not enjoy sex; she was possibly blaming herself for this and feels ashamed (an example of the victim blaming herself instead of blaming the aggressor). Possibly, she was also protesting unconsciously against all men or society by her rejecting the opportunity of having an enjoyable sex. She deprived herself of sexual joy in order to deprive her husband

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